December is the month of giving and reflecting and my stoma has given me a new lease on life and changed my perspective for the better. Living with a stoma can seem daunting at first, but it has become a powerful symbol of my triumph over adversity. It isn’t just a part of me; it’s an emblem of the second chance I’ve received.
Here are a few ways in which I have embraced my stoma and the positive effect it has had upon me and others:
- One of the most profound ways my stoma has changed my life is by quite literally saving it. Without this significant medical intervention, my health journey could have taken a different turn.
- Besides this vital purpose, my stoma often brings joy in the most unexpected ways. For example, my children laugh every time I pass wind, turning an awkward moment into a light-hearted one.
- My stoma also provides a certain amount of convenience. I no longer need to wait in lines for public toilets because the stoma bag discreetly takes care of that.
- When someone notices the outline of my stoma under my shirt, they’re often intrigued by it – especially those suffering from an IBD – I see these moments as opportunities to educate people about it. These conversations often serve as great ice-breakers.
- Moreover, the solidarity I’ve found among other ostomates on social media has been truly inspiring. It’s comforting to know that there’s a supportive community out there who understand this unique journey.
- Lastly, living with a stoma opened up an opportunity to collaborate with charities and organisations like Respond Healthcare Ltd, a company that aligns perfectly with my values. This partnership has added another positive dimension to what seemed like an overwhelming situation, initially.
Continuing on this journey, I have found that embracing my stoma has allowed me to see the beauty in resilience and the strength that comes from overcoming challenges. It has given me a new perspective on life and a deeper appreciation for the little things. Through sharing my story and connecting with others, I have been able to educate and inspire those who may be going through similar experiences. Together, we can break down the stigma surrounding stomas and create a more inclusive and understanding society. With each passing day, I am reminded of the power of embracing our differences and finding strength in our vulnerabilities.